My collection of wise, and not so wise, postings

Sunday, 22 January 2012

the power of words.

More than a thousand years ago we had skalds in Norway. They had great influence on who was ruling because they were known to master both to have a way with words and to recognize the truth. The Vikings were not the only ones to have them in their system of ruling or governing; I am sure these guys had an important position, and served a cardinal purpose around the world, even if they had different titles and status from place to place; i.e. Court jester, minstrel, troubadour. They served the same role in the political, cultural and religious life everywhere.

By using the art of words he (never heard of a female one) could say almost anything to the Viking chieftain, without being threatened to be beheaded. When the skald expressed himself in his clever manner he was listened to, even if what he said was a reprisal in disguise. People would address the skald asking him to propose their problem or cause, in the quest to get a fair and, of course, favorable ruling from the chieftain.
At the same time a wise poet would be a useful adviser, for he could say difficult things in a way that was not taken offensive.

In earlier times few people could read, and even fewer write. So everyone had to carry the words in their head. Therefore it had to be well said, it should be easy to remember. What is in rhyme is remembered correctly more easily, because if a word is wrong, the rhyme fails.

 
Most people think that battling is a new, hip, revolutionary way to compete.The object of a rap battle is to come up with insulting rap lyrics on the spot (not pre-written or pre-meditated) and rap them towards an opponent. The rapper with the best delivery, lyrics, and crowd response usually wins. The Vikings did it too. The chieftain would send his skald out to battle agains an other chieftain's skald to settle disagreements. We find references to battling in literature from other countries and cultures too, so it was not something uncommon or unheard of.

Created during a time from when words only lived in the minds of people, to more knowledge of reading and writing, we started to write events and deals down. Through time and history, helped by literacy, skaldic art lost some of its importance, and developed into what we today consider poetry and even juridical documents.
From oral texts we entered a time where we trust what is written far more than what is said.

Skaldic art is like using words creating music, in its most effective and powerful way. The words employ and intensify the message.
Like music as we know it today, it can (and should) arouse emotions, or create images, or preferably both… Or sound so totally wrong that you just want to shut out and walk away: The kind of situation where you don’t even feel the urge to argue. You just want to turn and leave, even though you know it is not right to let what is said stand without contradiction.
To leave what is wrong alone is, in my opinion, to give credit to the misconception.



Today we are drowned in words. Maybe words are losing its strength  because we abuse them, but there was a time when a thoughtless word could cost lives, or a well-received poem could very well give wealth and honor, yes power. Kings and nobles enjoyed talented skalds or poets because the word of a man lived on long after the man, or woman, was dead.

Not long ago the pen was considered the strongest of weapons… maybe that is still true, if we use our words right.


 

Sunday, 15 January 2012

Not expected guests

I have just been informed that what is going on in my house is rather outrageous! Relax, it is nothing bad (from my point of view) it is just not what most people (at least not here in Norway) consider normal. I never really thought about it before, but a neighbor of mine was rather indignant with it, on my behalf, when I told her about my dinner guests over Christmas holidays.

I am not very good at hosting dinner parties. I am not the kind of hostess who will plan for days and days (maybe even weeks) how to set the table, what kind of centerpiece to display, how to seat the guests, what to serve, when and how.
Anipasta with Olive Oil - Vendor: iClipartIt does not mean I never invite people for dinner, or any other meal of the day. I do! I am just not very… proper. And I never really invite people; my guests are the drop in kind of visitors.
I just suggest they should come over later or, if they are already in the house, stay, for whatever meal is due.
It is not that I am unorganized or overly impulsive but I just don’t feel I have the time to plan events in advance.

When I am invited for dinner, coffee or any other sort of get-together which includes food, I do what every sincere and/or polite person do: I compliment the effort the host or hostess has made to make it a pleasant meal with nice surroundings in good company. I do not only compliment the effort: I honestly and truly appreciate the length they go to, in order to make me (and anyone else invited) feel welcome and at ease.
I love the feeling of being pampered and made a fuss about: To be a VIP.

My guests don’t get that treatment at all. That is: There have been special occasions, even in my life, when I have invited people to celebrate with me, and when you send a formal invitation there should be a planned setting, a menu and timing. I am not good at any of that, but I make an effort when making an effort is the right thing to do.

Anyway, the thing that upset my neighbor was I told her, in the course of a conversation, that I never really know how many will come when I invite someone.

For some reason, a few of my friends find it ok to bring extra guests. If I am lucky they call and tell me, but not always.
I think it has to do with my propensity to cook while my guests are seated around my kitchen table and we all talk. I like fresh food, and I like it to be newly made.

Besides, cooking a meal is far less time consuming than most think. If you have sharp knives, that is. A decent set of knives makes cooking both quick and more pleasant. And to show off throwing tomatoes in the air and see them split when hitting the knife is a good party trick. And some even point out they appreciate seeing me wash my hands every now and again.

I might even have brought it upon myself, as I suggested, at some point, that if you cook for 6 you might as well cook for 10. The mess is the same, you just need to add more vegetables and salads. And sharing a meal is so much nicer than to eat alone.
Pita Pocket Sandwich Clipart - Vendor: iClipartI like long meals with many people around the table and good humoured conversations. The food itself is not important.

Empty Plates in a Restaurant - Vendor: Fred VoetschI am not a gourmet, I make eatable food, but I do not think it is the food itself that makes people come. I think it is the knowledge we have a welcoming house. Not a house which is as tidy as I wish (newspapers and Lego have been known to be removed from the table as the guests sit down), and far from quiet, but a home where people are welcome…  as long as they approve of the less formal setting and a table without a stunning centerpiece.
It is not outrageous, as far as I am conserned, to me that is sharing togetherness.